Relationships: The Magic Ingredient Is Self-Love

A Message From - Carol
Relationships

Relationships: The Magic Ingredient Is Self-Love

Relationships – Support System

One might say, that the building principles we incorporate for the foundation of a home, are much like the ones needed to support and secure the strength of our Relationships.  Our Journey in Earth’s classroom if one of Soul Growth, these lessons come through our Relationships and our Experiences.

Our curriculum for growth establishes how we maneuver through Life.  Whether despite or perhaps because of our unresolved traumas.

Cleansing from our challenges become the Magic Ingredient for future Healthy Relationships.  Our Inner Journey, to unwind these entanglements that block our Love of Self.  A Journey that requires that we De-Construct the many layers, to Re-Construct the supportive structure that we deserve.  The Life, our Soul, understands, and desires.  As we heal, we awaken our Authentic-Self, Our True-Nature.

The deepest part of our Inner Being that IS sounding the Horn!

As we begin to release our attachments, we our focus to our divine purpose.  We bravely take the Deep Dive of Soul recovery to uncover, examine, and heal our Core Wounds.  Many from our childhood we have carried within us for decades.

A Home To Hold A Life Worth Loving!

All relationships need to be built on firm footings, as they are only as strong as what lies beneath.

As Souls, we enter each Lifetime with a Life plan contract established with our Soul Group.  An agreement created with our consent, before emerging into the physical.  It becomes a baseline manuscript that includes Actors, Roles and Lifetime of various Acts.  Many of our Lessons can be very difficult.  If we look deeper,we often find that these lessons become our Greatest Teachers.

Soul Growth is the goal of All lifetimes, the diploma, if you will, of our Souls progress, and yes, setbacks, know as Karma, Life’s imbalances.  Our Life Setbacks and Karma are often created by our Soul not addressing the Core Lessons of our Life plan for this Lifetime.

“Relationships are Assignments. Relationships are the Holy Spirit’s laboratories in which He brings together people who have the Maximal opportunity for Mutual growth.” Marianne Williamson

What Lies Beneath Your Foundation?

The health of a tree depends on a healthy root system, essential for proper nourishment and support.  So too is the importance of what lies below the foundation of our relationships, with others, as well as with ourselves.  The one we often value as the least important.  Yes, that One!  When we carry from our Past unresolved Trauma, Anger, Resentment, and Pain, ultimately they show signs of decay – compromising our foundation’s strength.  Often irreversibly.

Clearing past issues before beginning a relationship, include a bold look, yes, an unflinching look at ourselves, our Masks, our Personas – the masks in need of acknowledgment to expose the issues that lie beneath.  A valuable process to bring Light to the unresolved that disrupts our Inner Peace.  Our return to Sanity, to Peace, to Well-Being, to our Authentic-Self.

Relationships: Behind The Masks“Crisis is a doorway to greater understanding and harmony.  Without crisis to inform us of disharmony, we may tarry too long and lose the chance to transform…Crisis is a truth serum.  Learn from it and harmony will be restored.  Ignore it, and greater sorrow is to follow.”  Ann Mortifee

Listen For Inner Guidance

Our Inner Guidance is here to assist and redirect us on our Path.  When we unsuccessfully try to ignore our Inner Voice, it soon becomes louder to get our attention.  Our Path then becomes rocky until we face our cloaked demons!  The demons we thought were successfully locked away in the Toy box of Unwanted memories!  They would have nothing of that, so the pain continues.

Once we realize that paint and spackle can only mask the cracks of an Unresolved foundation cosmetically, the Deeper Core Wounds will remain, disrupting our Peace until they are acknowledged.

The Unforeseen

Unresolved Traumas continue to come forward, taking many different, often crippling avenues addressed.  This action may seem unnecessary when no apparent problems are visible at first glance.  Realize, as with any Building Project, even our Personal One, overlooked steps will inevitably be cause for concern.

Cracks begin to appear, perhaps slowly at first, that eventually threaten all Future successes, and can leave permanent scars.

Perhaps not physically seen, but Deeply felt.

Gambling On The Odds

We are not characters in a Storybook, why then, leave to chance, our Wishes, our Dreams, our Relationships.  Our Precious Life.  A life that deserves the necessary support to withstand the many challenges that Life will brings.  When we leave the unresolved, they soon grow legs that continue to wander not only into Our Nightmares but Our Everyday existence.

We must be willing to reclaim our Life courageously.  That feeling that overwhelms us deeply, awakens our connection to our Divine Grace within.  The Spiritual Love within every Soul that supports us until we find the Love within ourselves!

A Life that we cherish enough not to allow anything or anyone pull us back into the hole of despair.  A Life we are willing to work Diligently to Protect, to Insure it remains Stable.

Perseverance and foresight, strength and desire are how we become one with our foundation.  We gain Self-Awareness through this process that affords us a sense of security and pride.  Knowing we created a sustainable setting for all Future Growth.  When we witness the crumbling of our false facade; we appreciate and guard this Life and those in it that we love.  Self-Love is the vital piece of the relationship puzzle.  The key to all successful relationships, whether in friendship, love interest, or in business.  The underbelly is Our Journey Inward, otherwise we become the projector.  Time for a closer look and create a “Right Relation” with ourselves!

Self-Love returns as the prize in the box, as we unconditionally Forgive, Accept, Respect and Nurture ourselves.  We embrace All of Who we Are!  Self-Love is the core element of all Inner Healing Work.  As without Self-Love, true fulfillment in life seems unattainable.

Investing In Our Self-Worth

When we bravely Face the daunting depths where our shadows lie, we bring the cleansing Light to the demons beneath.  The old and tattered memories that oddly were familiar.  They hold the secrets and the Shame ready to Let Go!

I Didn’t Break – I Didn’t Die

Our Shadows live in the Darkness of our unconscious mind.  They become the director of our actions, even though the shadows remain hidden. Safe guarded, rejected and suppressed knowingly or not, until we are ready to face them.  When left in the Darkness, they bring havoc in our lives.  The undertow that pulls on our emotions until they are healed, accepted, and loved.

The Pain and Shame, we believe, is hidden in the depths of our minds, soon come out of the closet.  No longer content to be in the shadows, now at the forefront of our thoughts.  The time arrives quickly, a drowning feeling that requires a choice.  To either fall deeper into the depths of despair, or depression or face the monsters.

We are not alone in this endeavor.  We are one with the divine.  The support we receive assists us out of the fog.  Lifts us from the Shame we carried for so long, that was never ours to claim.  When we allow our emotions to take control, they grow and distort experiences, as the lack of Self-Worth continues to grow and hides us from the good in our lives.

The Light Is Always On

You see, we are never alone in our Self-imposed Darkness.  As we break free, we realize we always can see the Light of Guidance along Our Path.  Illuminating Our way Home.  Yes, the Light was  there, but it was our sight that was blinded by the Darkness.

Healing The Wounded Inner Child Workbook“Grace is always present, waiting to bestow it’s healing breathe upon whatever draws near.  It is we who must approach it in stillness.  It is we who must open to receive.  Grace is constant.”  Ann Mortifee

It is through Grace, we can welcome and heal our Inner Child.  With Grace we begin to appreciate and Love ourselves as we embrace the Peace within Our Soul from a Heart now filled with the Joy of Self-Love.

We gain a Life to cherish more joyous that we can imagine, the freedom of the Deep Dive to unlock the Pain, Shame, and elf-loathing.  When we find our Voice, our Courage, we knew we will Never allow another to take Inner Spark of our Soul!

It is far too Precious of a gift.

The Healing Power Of Forgiveness

“The Act of Forgiveness takes place in Our Mind.  It really has nothing to do with the other person.”Louise Hay

It has everything to do with You, Your Courage.  Send Love, Gratitude & Forgiveness for your Courage and Strength!

I believe we have the strength to go further, to Forgive the Soul of those who caused us harm, allowing the full Healing of our Soul.  Not to forgive the Actor nor the Act, ruled by their personalities, but to Untether our Soul from them.  If willing, forgiveness becomes a vital tool to cut the cord connection Forever!  This Path completes our sustainable foundation to become a Soul of Peace!

A Foundation To Build Upon

Divine blueprints, make perfect sense to Our Divine Architects!

Our homes are like Relationships, including the Relationship with Ourselves.  All lives require and deserve, these common elements – To Feel Loved, Nurtured, and Safe.  As we continue our Self-Care, we protect all we have so Lovingly Re-Constructed.

A place to house all Our Dreams, no longer storing this Box of Photos in the depths of Our Mind – labeled…”Secrets.”

A Life to overflow with the fond memories missed through the Darkness of the past.  The future memories to come are Free to bloom and grow, as the Light has cleansed the long-held Shadows.   The Light and Love of Divine Grace has shown us how Loved and Worthy we are.  Our powerful cleansing has allowed our Love of Self to grow, for when we love ourselves, we are available to Love others.   As our Paths are illuminated, cleansed of the Darkness, we continue our Spiritual Journey with a Grateful Heart.  We become a Magnet for Life’s Miracles!

We are the miracles of Divine Grace!

Embrace the Dance,

Carol